Catholic
This was one of those books written by a priest to laymen from around the turn of the century. Very kind and encouraging, good advice. Public Domain.
Father Ronald Knox's story of his conversion from Anglican to Roman Catholic. I love Ronald Knox. Public Domain.
An encyclical by Pope John Paul II about the role and vocation of the family. This was a reread. You can find lots of encyclicals online.
A collection of Cardinal Newman's sermons from his Anglican days. He is an amazing sermon writer. He takes a scripture and develops it beautifully and with so much learning and insight. Public Domain.
A trasnlation from Sophia Institute Press of a book by a well known Polish cardinal (whose name I can't remember at the moment). I've read this before too, at least in parts.
Philosophy, Science, Commentary
A collection of essays. I enjoyed reading them but don't remember too many of the details.
I decided I really should read something of Nietzsche and this one was at our house. Very interesting.
By Stephen Hawking and someone else. Physics interesting, philosophy simplistic.
This is by Thomas Cahill, author of How the Irish Saved Civilization. It was not as good as that one, but still interesting as a sort of survey of Old Testament history and its legacy.
This was really interesting but took a long time to read. It was about how Zen Buddhism has influenced Japanese art, particularly, but also other things.
Parenting
Interesting book on how raising boys is different from raising girls.
This book is extremely insightful. I read a lot of parenting and simplicity books and they start sounding somewhat alike, but this one was different. It made the fascinating point that more parenting issues than you would think come from the frenzied level of overstimulation that our children are bathed in without us even noticing. It covers issues like Too Many Toys, Extreme Food, Media Barrage of Information, and more.
Divided into different topics, about the nitty gritty of teaching life skills to kids. Ideas for projects and discussions. It's the kind of book I have trouble reading because it doesn't really have the "big picture", but if you are one of those practical hands on people, you might find it very valuable.
An inspiring and short book about introducing your children to charitable giving and service.
A reread. This is one of my top five parenting books.
Funny and interesting, making the point that statistically, we don't live in such dangerous times for children as we thought, and that we are not doing any favors to our kids by keeping them at home and protected from any possible harm.
This was an OK book. The author has a real interest in teenagers, but I didn't really get into it much, maybe because I picked it up on impulse at the library and didn't have any specific motivation for reading it.
Pretty good book. I have heard that some people really love the book, but to me the secrets seemed fairly obvious.
Again, a good book, but didn't really grab me. All the habits seemed quite obvious. I guess my life is so much different from those of the moms in the book that the advice didn't seem targeted to me.
Education
I liked this! It was divided into 55 short chapters of "Ways" or "Rules" but the author managed to connect them so they didn't seem random or scattered.
The self-told stories of several grown homeschoolers. Most of this kind of book is written by unschooling graduates, but this one was centered on homeschoolers who received a Protestant, more or less "school at home" type of education. Cathy Duffy's son Matthew pulled together the collection and wrote one of the chapters.
I have a chapter in this book -- the stories of Catholic unschooling families, and some who partly unschool (like me). I go back and reread the book regularly for refreshment. I think it can be a good read even for non-Catholics and non-unschoolers.
Public domain, written by a Catholic teacher of girls. Very wise and practical, reminds me of Charlotte Mason and Laura Berquist both.
- See Me After Class: Advice for Teachers by Teachers
- The Pressures of Teaching: How Teachers Cope with Classroom Stress
- Resilience in the Classroom: Helping Students with Special Needs
Famous book by psychologist Robert Coles.
- The Learning Gap: Why Our Schools Are Failing and What We Can Learn from Japanese and Chinese Education
- Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
The second one is famous, and controversial: ). It was a real page-turner, and thought-provoking, slightly sad to me
Very interesting! And again, a bit sad. These young students are impressive, but also sacrifice much in their effort to reach the top tier of college applicants -- and for what? That is never quite clear.
Makes the case that geekiness is a survival trait in the long run, even if it isn't always a plus in the typical American high school.
Another book that "shadows" several kids during a year of school. It makes the case that school doesn't really serve the purposes intended for and that students achieve more by "gaming the system" than by actually trying to get an education.
Makes the case that girls lose their inner selves as they reach adolescence, not typically because of their families, but because of peer environment and media saturation. It was interesting to read a book with a feminist take that also is strongly pro-family.
About the history of girls starving themselves. Apparently in the 19th century "fasting girls" were often thought to have special sanctity and were much celebrated by the media.
Very interesting book about social dynamics in girl groups. No matter where you were in the high school girl crowd, you might find it enlightening to read this book.
This is on the topic of girl bullying and tries to lay out strategies and survival skills -- as with all bullying issues, probably not a cure-all but a coping guide.
Actually this was a fiction book -- it was about a homeschooled kid raised by an aging hippie, who starts attending a typical middle school and ends up revolutionizing it. Fun, intended for middle school readers. My 15 year old enjoyed it too.
Special Needs
Both by a psychologist with adult ADD, who thinks of ADD as a condition with some positive aspects -- telling how to make the most out of life with ADD.
Encouraging book telling how to cope with adult ADD.
Another encouraging book that covers the basics. My problem is that even the simplest organization solutions sound too complex to my somewhat ADD brain.
About work life with Asperger, telling about the work experience of adult Aspergians.
By two adults with Asperger's, telling about what they learned about social life as teens and adults.
By Temple Grandin -- interesting account of life with autism and how she and her support system made it work.
By Gabor Mate, who co-wrote Hold On To Your Kids. I really like his writing style so while this book probably didn't contain much new information, I enjoyed reading it.
Wonderful book even if you don't have ADD. Doesn't take anything for granted and is full of useful strategies for organizing time, space and other things that are difficult for disorganized/ADD types.
Had some helpful tips, but again, almost assumes some organization before you can get organized.
This is from the perspective of a neurologist who looks at brain scans of people with ADD. He has identified several different types of ADD and proposes solutions that vary according to type.
Pretty much a personal memoir. Interesting to read, perhaps a little dated.
Miscellaneous Psychology
Ahh, it is taking too long to write something out for each title. These were all psychology books, many of them dealing with dysfunction n of various types. ...addiction, social anxiety, dysfunctional friendships and family life, stress and its relation to disease, and so on.
Ahh, it is taking too long to write something out for each title. These were all psychology books, many of them dealing with dysfunction n of various types. ...addiction, social anxiety, dysfunctional friendships and family life, stress and its relation to disease, and so on.
- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction
- There's a Boy in Here
- Descartes' Error: Emotion, Reason and the Human Brain
- The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self
- When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress
- The Mother Factor: How Your Mother's Emotional Legacy Impacts Your Life
- Dying of Embarrassment: Help for Social Anxiety & Phobia
- When Friendship Hurts: How to Deal With Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You
Self-Help/Lay Psychology
Mostly self-help or productivity books. Some were commentaries on various aspects of modern life -- like The Shallows (about internet use) and Drive (about the newest research on motivation), and American Nerd (a reflection on nerdiness in modern American life). Helping Me Help Myself was a kind of journalist memoir on various self-help movements. Empty Nest was a collection of essays by various journalists and writers on their experience of their kids moving out of the house.
Mostly self-help or productivity books. Some were commentaries on various aspects of modern life -- like The Shallows (about internet use) and Drive (about the newest research on motivation), and American Nerd (a reflection on nerdiness in modern American life). Helping Me Help Myself was a kind of journalist memoir on various self-help movements. Empty Nest was a collection of essays by various journalists and writers on their experience of their kids moving out of the house.
- Focus: A simplicity manifesto in the Age of Distraction
- Goal Setting: Discover What You Want in Life and Achieve It Faster than You Think Possible
- Interpersonal Conflict
- One Phone Call Away: Secrets of a Master Networker
- Do the Work
- 10-10-10: A Life-Transforming Idea
- The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to Our Brains
- The Empty Nest: 31 Parents Tell the Truth About Relationships, Love, and Freedom After the Kids Fly the Coop
- Breaking the Mold
- 168 Hours: You Have More Time than You Think
- Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
- American Nerd: The Story of My People
- Spiritual Housecleaning: Healing the Space Within by Beautifying the Space Around You
- The Age of Speed: Learning to Thrive in a More-Faster-Now World
- Freeze-Frame: Fast Action Stress Relief : A Scientifically Proven Technique
- Helping Me Help Myself: One Skeptic, Twelve Self-Help Programs, One Whirlwind Year of Improvement
- Undoing Perpetual Stress: The Missing Connection Between Depression, Anxiety and 21st Century Illness
Health and Fitness
I try to read about one diet/fitness book a month. Why We Run was a little different from the rest -- it was written by Bernd Heinrich, a biologist, and was more of a memoir/natural history about running.
- The Rules of Normal Eating
- Move a Little, Lose a Lot: New N.E.A.T. Science Reveals How to Be Thinner, Happier, and Smarter
- The Forever Young Diet and Lifestyle
- French Women Don't Get Fat: The Secret of Eating for Pleasure
- Mindless Eating: Why We Eat More Than We Think
- Cutting Myself in Half: 150 Pounds Lost, One Byte at a Time
- Feel Like a Million
- Outsmarting the Midlife Fat Cell: Winning Weight Control Strategies for Women Over 35 to Stay Fit Through Menopause
- Why We Run: A Natural History
- Second Book of Running
- Walking: A Complete Guide to the Complete Exercise
Writing
This year I read quite a few books about writing! I enjoyed the Stephen King one and the Anne Lamott one particularly.
- The Way to Write for Children: An Introduction to the Craft of Writing Children's Literature
- Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life
- The Writing Life
- On Writing
- Write. 10 Days to Overcome Writer's Block. Period.
- How to Write a Great Query Letter
- Stop Writing, Fool
Memoir
If you aren't going to read fiction, then a personal account or memoir is the next best thing. Sometimes they can be almost better than fiction in that they give you experience of a life very different from your own, like "Display of Power", the story of an inner city African American guy who made it big in the fashion industry. There were some memoirs/personal accounts scattered in the other categories, but these are the ones that didn't fit anywhere else.
- The Best of Friends: Two Women, Two Continents, and One Enduring Friendship<
- I Beat the Odds: From Homelessness to The Blind Side and Beyond
- Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year
- Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy's Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back
- En Route: A Paramedic's Stories of Life, Death, and Everything in Between
- Lives in the Balance: Nurses' Stories from the ICU
- Display of Power: How FUBU Changed a World of Fashion, Branding and Lifestyle>
- Forever Lily: An Unexpected Mother's Journey to Adoption in China
I have only read one of those!!!
ReplyDeleteIt is OUTSMARTING THE MIDLIFE FAT CELL....a great book! Too bad I have not taken it to heart!
Thanks for sharing! HUGE list!
I am thinking you have taken it to heart more than you think : ).
DeleteI thought you had read the Raising Boys one? Or maybe you just hoped to read it when your bedside shelf is emptier?
I could never afford to get the book...and our library does not have it.
DeleteOh, I DID get one on raising boys....was it this one?
It just was not the one I was looking for....
Oh this is great ! I love finding new lists for my psycology and counceling shelf ! I'm ready lol ☺
ReplyDeleteOh good, Rox, I'm glad it's not just me! : ) Let me know if you have any recommendations from your shelves!
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